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Published: May 17, 2023

Understanding the Difference between Bereavement and Grieving/Grief: A Mental Health Counseling Perspective

Losing a loved one is an incredibly difficult experience that many of us will face at some point in our lives. The process of coping with this loss can feel overwhelming and confusing, especially when it comes to understanding the terms “bereavement” and “grief.” While the two are often used interchangeably, they have different meanings and refer to different aspects of the experience of loss. In this blog post, we'll discuss the difference between bereavement and grieving/grief from a mental health counseling perspective, and how understanding this difference can help us understand and cope with loss.

Bereavement is the period of time following the loss of a loved one. It is an objective term that refers to the fact of losing someone important to us, and the time period immediately after the loss. This usually includes the funeral and other rituals of mourning. While bereavement is inevitable after a loss, it is important to remember that it is not a mental health condition on its own. Rather, it is a normal, healthy part of life.

Grieving, on the other hand, is the emotional response to the loss of a loved one. It is a subjective term that refers to the feelings, thoughts, and behaviors that individuals experience as they try to come to terms with their loss. Grief typically lasts much longer than bereavement and can include a range of complex emotions, including sadness, anger, guilt, and confusion. It can also manifest physically, as we may experience changes in our appetite, sleep patterns, or general health. The grieving process is unique to each individual and can vary significantly in intensity and duration.

Additionally, grief can be further differentiated into two types: acute grief and complicated grief. Acute grief is the initial response to a loss and is characterized by intense, powerful emotions such as shock, sadness, and disbelief. These emotions are strong but tend to decrease in intensity over time. Complicated grief, on the other hand, is a persistent state of intense mourning that can continue for months or even years after a loss. This type of grief is marked by extreme emotions such as yearning, longing, and intrusive thoughts about the deceased.

While bereavement and grief are different, they are both important aspects of the process of coping with loss. Acknowledging and allowing ourselves to feel the sadness and pain of our loss is essential for our emotional healing. However, sometimes, individuals can experience complicated grief, which is when they are not able to recover from the loss of their loved one effectively.

Understanding the difference between bereavement and grieving/grief can help us better understand and cope with losses. While bereavement is an external, objective term that refers to the fact of losing someone, grief is an internal, subjective response to that loss that can last for a long time. It is important to remember that experiencing grief is normal and healthy, but everyone experiences it differently. For some individuals, grief can become complicated, and they may need professional help to cope with their loss. Mental health counseling providers can assist individuals who are struggling with complicated grief with resources, support, and coping mechanisms. No matter how devastating the loss, we can get through it with time, care, and the right resources.



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